Start with something you genuinely share
Friendships are easier when conversation has a reason to continue. Music, gaming, football, cooking, films, travel, technology or language exchange can all provide that reason. Join discussions where you already have something to contribute.
Be interested in the person, not a stereotype
Someone being Turkish tells you only part of their story. People from different regions, generations and communities can have very different experiences. Ask what they enjoy and what matters to them rather than treating them as a representative of an entire country.
Consistency beats intensity
Online friendships often develop through small conversations over time. There is no need to ask for private contact details immediately. Give the other person room to decide how quickly the friendship develops.
Language exchange can help
If you are learning Turkish and your new friend wants to practice another language, a balanced language exchange can give both people something useful. Do not turn every casual conversation into a lesson, though. Friendship works best when both people enjoy the interaction.
Keep healthy boundaries
Never send money because a new online friend suddenly has an emergency. Do not share passwords, authentication codes or sensitive identity documents. Read how to spot online chat scams and our Turkish chat etiquette guide.
For places and topics to explore, start at the Turkish chat hub and see our guide to chatting with Turkish people online.